Wednesday, March 30, 2011

A Successful Marriage.

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2 weeks ago (I know, I know, I'm way behind on blogging....) we jumped in our (new!) car & drove 6 hours west to Murphy, NC for the wedding of our college buddy, John, & his bride, Cara. The nuptials took place at a beautiful farm with gorgeous mountain views, & the Cregers couldn't have asked for a more perfect day. Sunny, clear & unusually warm for March... especially considering we had freezing rain this week!
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John -- affectionately "Creger" (last-name/nicknames seem to be a theme with many of our college friends) is not only a great friend & a fun guy, but also has an incredibly strong faith. I love a good wedding & certainly the tasty food (barbeque at this mountain wedding...yum-o), dancing (please scroll down to the bottom of this post for some video evidence of a fantastic dance performance by Creger & his mom), & mini-reunions are all part of the celebration, but sometimes, I think couples miss the heart of the day. Not the case with these 2.
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Their pastor did an incredible job of celebrating their relationship in Christ, challenging them to keep their primary focus on their walk with God, all the while painting a picture to the family & friends who had come to celebrate with John & Cara of what a successful marriage should look like.
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One particular statement stuck out to me (forgive me for paraphrasing his much more powerful words): Just because you "make it" 50 or 60s years doesn't mean your marriage is successful. A successful marriage is one that is centered on Christ & reflects His glory. Our marriages should be a testament to the grace & power of God in our lives. After all, the marital relationship is to mirror that of Christ & the Church.
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Mr. & Mrs. Creger, it was such a joy to celebrate with you. Matt & I wish you many many years of love, joy & a relationship centered on the God who brought you together. As for everyone else we had the pleasure of seeing in Murphy, get busy. Someone else needs to get hitched so we can all get together again soon!
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I took a bunch of photos (would you expect anything less?!?) & won't share all of them on the blog, but if you're interested in seeing more, click here to go to my smugmug album. Here are a few (okay more like 20) favorites from the day....
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My gorgeous friend Liz. I'm a tad bit jealous my hair won't do that.
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With my main man.
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My main man, with another man. How dare you, Tim?! :)
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Cbiz & the fellas (Brad & Tim). What lucky men.
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(Mrs. Schroeder & Mrs. Miller) These 2 ladies also married their college sweethearts!
Andrea, Jackie & I (plus Cara!) all married Young Life boys... they're keepers!
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My aisle seat proved awesome for getting ceremony shots. (Check out that view!)
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Lammers fulfilling his groomsmen duties (& apparently enjoying it). I'm digging the peacock feather.
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2 of my best girlfriends (sadly, we were minus Jenny).
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Matt sandwich (with Brad in the middle).
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Cake.
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More cake. It was tasty.
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Had to share because I did her hair.
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Creger & his mom's rendition of Thriller. Please scroll down to watch!
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Photobooth fun (this may be my favorite photo of the entire wedding).
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Photobooth shenanigans continue. Loving Abby with long, blonde hair! Ha!
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Bahahahaha...
Wish I could go back & add a photobooth to our wedding.
Court & I came back with props.
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Matt got a talking to after I looked at all of our photos & in 99% of them he's goofing off.
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That's more like it.
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If Courtney & I had an album cover, I'm pretty sure we'd use this photo (we were both fond of our shoes).
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Nah. We'd probably use this instead.
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Matt + Matt  = BFFs 4ever.
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I miss this girl.
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Taking a break from dancing to smile for Jackie's camera.
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The whole gang. Our U of I / Young Life family (Missing a few key people...). Gosh, I love these folks.
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End of the night. Before the crazy-big-moon made its appearance.

To wrap this up, I have to leave you with this video. In lieu of a more "traditional" mother-son dance, Creger & his mom surprised the wedding guests (& maybe Cara...not sure if she was in on it) by doing the entire Thriller dance. It was both hilarious & awesome. It's no secret where Creger's smooth moves come from anymore.... Way to go, Momma Creger!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Photo of the Week: Sneak Peek

We went to a super-fun wedding last weekend in the NC mountains. I'm about 2 weeks behind on blogging, so hopefully I'll be able to share some more photos later this week. In the meantime, here's one of my faves:
John & Cara (a.k.a. Groom & Bride) had a photo booth for their guests to snap shots to put in their guest book (we also got a copy to take home - please 'scuse the poor scan job). If you are planning a wedding.... I'd highly recommend a photo booth. Super fun & I'm sure a blast to look over all of the photos later. I visited the booth a lot with my girlfriends & Matt, & on one of those visits, we were able to snag the groom for a little "photo shoot." Court, Liz & John.... this one is going on the fridge! More to come! Congrats, Mr. & Mrs. Creger!!!!! Such a joy to celebrate with you!

Friday, March 25, 2011

Congrats, Shann & Johnnathan!

Our friends Shann & Johnnathan (& big sis Graysie) welcomed a new edition to their family 2 weeks ago. Meet Belle...
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I was able to stop by just 3 days after she arrived with my sweet friend, Lori (who is also expecting!), to meet the little lady. Shann (middle) looks pretty darn amazing for just having a bambino! And isn't Lori (right) just glowing? That'll be you in a few months, Lori! Except you'll be holding a little man.
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Belle is absoutely perfect. Sweet. Teeny. Peaceful. Soft. Everything a baby girl should be. (Plus...check out that hair!)
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She slept pretty much the whole time we were there. She did take one peek at her visitors & then went back to lala land. I love this photo of Belle & their dog, Maple. Maple is just keeping watch over her little sister.
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I'm hoping to go back soon to visit with my 50mm lense, which should be a lot sharper than the 18-105mm lens I brought with me on my first (impromptu) visit! I'd love to snap some better photos of the family of four (Shann & Jonathan already have a sweet pea named Graysie). Congratulations to a beautiful family!!!!

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Out with the old.... In with the new....

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On the left, our Jeep "at home" in the NC mountains will now be at home in the Virginia mountains.  
On the right, our new Honda Accord (photo courtesy of the seller) is ready for road trips!!!!

A month and a half ago, when we finally 100% committed to the University of Florida for dental school, Matt & I sat down at dinner & made our "pre-move to-do" list. At the time it was daunting, overwhelming & exhausting to look at everything that we needed to accomplish in a few short months. Probably the most stressful item on our list (after figuring out my work situation) was car-related.

You may remember our Camry tragedy from the fall. If not - I'll catch you up to speed: Our car died 2 hours away from home & was too expensive to repair so we cut our losses & sold the non-working shell. The end. We dropped down to being a one car family again, which works really well for us, & quite frankly, is our plan for the indefinite future. We were fortunate enough to have inherited Matt's parents' Jeep (the Camry was inherited from my folks) so we had a good, solid set of wheels. Not to mention Matt's 2 wheels (his bike!), which he rides to work every day & plans to ride to dental school in the fall. We're a "green" family :)

We knew that we'd need to invest in another more family-friendly/fuel-efficient car down the road, but for the time being, the Jeep was perfect for our life situation. We don't go on many long road trips from NC (like we used to do in the Camry), & the Jeep is a great "around-town" kind of car, plus it's fun for a young couple like us! We can easily pop our bikes on the back & be at the trails in 10 minutes.  We loved (still love) our Jeep.

As gas prices rose & the reality of our move to Florida set in, however, we realized that the Jeep may not be the best car for us going forward. We'll be just a few short hours away from my folks & we'd like to be able to go back & forth to Vero more regularly than we do now. We forsee lots more road time in the Jeep & although it's fun - it doesn't get great gas mileage & isn't the safest car on the road. Plus, we realized that we'd eventually like to have a family (now don't get too excited - we have to get Matt at least part way through school before we start thinking seriously about that!!!), & throwing a car seat in the back of a soft-top Jeep just wouldn't cut it. Add to that some pricey, routine maintenance that was coming up (it is a 1998, after all) & we decided it was time to say goodbye. ***Cue tears***

We resolved that instead of waiting until our family grew to buy a more "practical" car, we would see if we could sell the Jeep in NC where it may go for a higher price than FL (four wheel drive is probably more useful here than in flat Florida!) & buy a (new-to-us) used car pre-move. This was also spurred on by the fact that it costs a small fortune to bring a car into the state of Florida, so we wanted to arrive with our 'long-term' car instead of paying to register the Jeep in Florida & then doing it all over again in a year or two with a different car.

Whew. I'm getting long winded. Long story shorter.... after a thorough search, we ended up finding the perfect car to suit our needs. A 2005 Honda Accord that had only one owner (a nice middle aged mom), relatively low miles (55k), & was in great condition. A week ago, after our fair share of negotiating plus an inspection & tune-up at a local shop, we forked over the cash for this beauty & drove her home. The seller snapped our photo before we left & emailed to me:
The same night we brought home the Honda, Matt listed the Jeep on Craigslist. He told me that night "no one is going to pay (our list price) for this car." I had suggested starting high (we had negotiated on our Honda & brought the price down $600), & we'd be more likely to get to our goal price by starting higher. 12 hours later we had about 10 emails in our inbox. Needless to say, Matt was surprised.  Selling a car through Craigslist is certainly not as easy as trading in at a dealer or selling to Carmax, but we knew the car was worth more than what a dealer would give us (we had quotes from a local dealer & Carmax before listing on Craigslist) & for us, it was worth the hassle of dealing with potential buyers ourselves. Plus, we'd done it once before with our Camry, so we knew the ropes, so to speak.

Today, one week after listing, the Jeep drove away to it's new home. An older man from Virginia ended up buying our beloved Jeep for just $100 under our list price (so much for Matt's worries). He wanted a car he could put his dogs in & drive to his mountain house off the Blue Ridge Parkway. He also mentioned that his wife had a convertible & he wanted a car he could take the top off, too! We were happy to see the Jeep heading to such a good home. As for the price, we were ecstatic. When we listed the car, we'd hoped that at the end of the day we could walk away with at least $1k less then our list price (after negotiations, etc), but given the high interest level, we soon discovered that we'd priced pretty appropriately.

We had done our homework. Here are a few things we found to be helpful when buying/selling as a private party ... or as Matt suggested I title this post "How to Sell a Car in  (less than) Ten Days":
  • Get Edmunds & Kelly Blue Book values on your car & set your price realistically. Your buyers will be looking at the blue book value, so you want to make sure you're in the ball park (with some cushion for negotiations). Be realistic about your car's condition. Keep in mind that for a car to be considered "excellent condition" -- it's probably pretty darn new.
  • Take your car to a dealer/Carmax to see what the trade-in value would be. This can help set your floor & help in setting a price. If selling your car as a private party doesn't work, at least you know your options!
  • Look at your Carfax to anticipate what buyers will be looking at & be ready to explain any thing from the Carfax that may reflect poorly (e.g. accidents, liens on the car, etc). No need to create negotiating opportunities down the road. Disclose! Disclose! Disclose! It's good for not only the buyer, but an honest seller avoids surprises that may end a potential deal down the road.
  • To further that point -- disclose everything you know to be wrong with the car upfront so as not to create a negotiating opportunity for buyers down the line. I know this sounds counter-intuitive, but that helped us bring down the price on the Honda. After having it checked out at a shop pre-purchase (for which we footed the bill), we were able to get the seller to bring down the price for some necessary repairs. Had she told us upfront (in her defense, some of the things she wouldn't have known), she may have avoided this discussion all together.
  • Put a ton of photos online so as to weed out potential buyers who wouldn't be interested after seeing some of the car's less endearing qualities. For us - that meant advertising our Jeep's rust & wear & tear that is to be expected on a 13 year old car instead of having them show up to look at the car & then decide they weren't interested. In the end, you don't want to show your car to everyone & their mother, so it's best to only deal with serious buyers. Value your time.
  • Have a bill of sale ready with appropriate clauses to protect both yourself and the buyer (very important - that you are selling the car in "as is" condition!). Keep a copy for yourself & give one to the buyer. It's not required, but it's a helpful document to have in your files. (You can download samples online; I relied on both my dad & Matt's dad to help draft one).
  • Be clear on payment upfront. We were paid in cash for both the Camry & the Jeep, but we actually paid using a certified check for our Honda at our seller's request. It's also nice if you can deposit the cash at the same time you're signing over the title (to make sure your buyer's not into any funny business). Our bank doesn't charge to notarize for bank customers, so we could do both at the same time.
  • Make sure to know the process with your insurance company / bank / DMV / etc. Each state is a little different, so have whatever paperwork they require ready to go! You never know when a buyer may give you a ring!!! Know the process before you list your car! No need to scramble at the last minute.
  • If you are a buyer, know the registration/title fees, taxes, any changes to your insurance rates, etc. before you shop around. Your budget may be a lot smaller after accounting for all of those costs. If you're buying from a dealer -- the fees skyrocket even more. For example, one dealer wanted to charge us a $499 "dealer fee". Most dealers have these fees, but the amount can vary.
  • Furthermore, if you plan on registering a car in another state in the near future, get to know that state's registration rules, taxes, etc. For our Honda, Florida's fees & taxes added over $1100 to our car budget on top of what we're paying in North Carolina! Ouch.
Although it all happened pretty fast (Matt got an email this a.m. & within 3 hours, the buyer was in our driveway), we were ready. It was a lucky coincidence that Matt had the day off work today, so all I had to do was drive with him to the bank to sign over the title & make a stop at the DMV on the way home to turn in our tags. He even did all the negotiating & stood his ground on our price! I'm so proud.

So there is the story of our cars. I doubted that anyone would be all that interested, but when we bought our Honda last week, I posted a photo on facebook & had 2 folks ask if I'd blog about it... so this is for you, Andrew & Emily!

Friday, March 18, 2011

My hubby is 26 years old today!

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To celebrate Matt's 26th, we're going dancing. I've raved before on Matt's mad dancing skills, which (among other reasons) made me swoon for him, & this weekend we're headed to one of our favorite dancing venues.... a wedding! Our college friend & former YL leader, John, is getting married to a sweet Southern lady in North Carolina this weekend. So we get to reunite with some of our all-time favorite people, celebrate John & Cara's nuptials & bust a move while we're at it. We also get to test out our new wheels (read my little post script below) en route to the wedding. Saturday can't come soon enough. Tonight, for Matt's actual birthday, we're going to go out for a birthday dinner, skype with Hannah, open presents & then dig into the yummy carrot cake I made, an annual treat for my man. Carrot cake = Matt's love language. Birthdays are fun. So is my husband. I'm a lucky lady. (BTW - doesn't he look handsome in the photo above? Snapped that last weekend on UNC's campus. It was gettting pretty dark so the color file was a tad bit grainy, but I love it in sepia.)

P.S. The blog has been pretty "light" content-wise recently. Lots of pictures, but not much copy. That's because we're super busy at the McA house. We bought a car this week (we've been shopping for awhile), listed our Jeep the same day & got a ton of bites, celebrated St. Patty's Day in true McAndrew fashion, been sucked in (willingly) to March Madness & will ring in Matt's 26th bday & John & Cara's wedding this weekend! Whew! We're pooped!!!! I'll be back to blog when life slows down. I actually have a darling post up my sleep (pending the subject's permission to post her photos) & a couple of other things to share. Until then.... Happy Spring! and more importantly, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HONEY!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Photo of the Week: Welcome Spring

Spring has arrived in North Carolina! This makes me a happy girl!
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(Photo taken in our friends' backyard in Apex, NC. Can't beat that for a backyard view!)
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